Archive for the ‘Family’ Category

Alot of people seem to either not know or forget that their spouse is family. Even more family than your mother or siblings. The bond spouses have is more sacred and linked than that of those we actually share same DNA with.

You might say “yea yea we all know this”. I say NO, you don’t! You find people treating their husband or wife with so much contempt. Almost like an employee that a favour is being done for, so whatever crap is dished should be received as a privilege. 

People have terrible, useless, shameful siblings yet they would defend, fight for and protect that sibling. But go home and get upset and practically threaten to move out because there is toothpaste on the sink, an empty milk carton was left in the fridge, there are dirty dishes in the sink…you name it. 

If spouses sit and actually think about what marriage truly is, there would be a highly reduced rate of divorces. Marriage isn’t dating. You don’t pack up and move on because things are tough. Things are tough everywhere, in every relationship you would encounter challenges because every individual is an embodiment of diverse qualities and exposures. 

You know how years after a couple have been together they start looking like each other, this is because they have given part of themselves to  their spouse. They even start sounding alike. 

So how is it possible that people are willing to hide a corpse for their parents or siblings but find it so hard to tolerate, be kind to, support, show compassion to a part of themselves in the form of a spouse. 

We run around screaming “I Love You” when it is all rosy and flame is burning hot. Love isn’t a feeling, that tingly thing you feel isn’t the “love”. Love can only be expressed through actions and words, leading to an equal and opposite reaction  (well most of the time). 

Marriage on the other hand is a sense of duty. You do things because it is expected of you. You act a certain way because this person is a part of you. So When making decisions in marriage concerning your spouse, make it with the awareness of the decision being about you because you and your spouse are the same person. Do this and I promise you, you will lead a happy life, even in the midst of challenges.

Xoxo

I have not blogged in quite some time. Not because I lacked what to blog about but because, I was going through “self discovery”. How cliche of me you might say, but thats the truth.

Incase you are wondering if I found whatever it is I was looking for, sorry to disappoint you, but I did. Or if I didn’t I am not yet quite aware of it. But not to worry much about things I have little or no control over, lets jump right to it.

Alot of TV shows are on break or are at the finale. Its sad that audiences are going more and more impatient these days. We want to know how it’ll end, did the guy get the girl? Was the liar and deceit exposed eventually? Was the murder killed or arrested? Who is the person causing the issues?

Those are just a few things we ponder on when watching a movie or TV show.

Lets jump right into some shows and see what happened.